Wednesday, September 16, 2015
Secret Sin (sin sin sin sin) a bleak and depressing look on something others will try to be positive about.
Secret sin is a part of any Christian's walk at one point or another. One may argue that no sin is secret because God knows and sees all our sins, but to say that really ignores the meat of the issue, which is that sin kept secret from other people around us can end up hurting us (and others) in the end. Public confession and reconciliation could be effective ways of combating secret sin and inward shame, but are rendered less effective by the selfish self-serving focus of today's culture. In today's culture people are too busy worrying about themselves and their own secret sins to notice when someone else comes forward and confesses. They may nod their heads in approval or think less of the person for showing their weaknesses and sins, but they won't remember by the end of the week. This leaves the confessor, still with no help, to worry about a possibly sullied reputation. I am describing society as a whole, by the way, I won't pretend everyone is the way I describe. At least, I hope not. Anyway, I just thought the blog was looking too positive and cheery and wanted to balance out the scales with some good old fashioned negativity. I want to make it clear that the views expressed above are an exaggeration of how I see things. Ever since we learned about existentialism, nihilism, and other similar viewpoints I began enjoying looking at things from a bleaker perspective. Feel free to put any disputes to my claims in the comments, I'm sort of jaded to the whole secret sin thing but, would love to discuss it.
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Thanks for the meat.
ReplyDeleteI don't think that there is anything wrong with being positive about something that is a bit sad. Yeah, today's society is a little self-centered but what your asking for is a perfect world, which this isn't. Plus, the way you described how people confess their sins to others is underestimating and doubting human compassion. People naturally want to help alleviate suffering of others and sometimes you just have to have faith in humanity and trust in God, even when things seem to reach rock bottom. That scenario might happen if a stranger confessed to another stranger and in some ways it might not, but to say that someone would forget something so memorable is highly rare. I don't think it is a weakness to confess, but it is a strong point because it reveals that he/she is not afraid to show their flaws and in my opinion that is very admirable. So if it were me, then I would want to help anyone that confessed to me or that needs it because that is also how I would like to be treated. Thank you for letting me see the other perspective, but I'm okay with seeing things in a positive way :))
ReplyDeleteThere is absolutely nothing wrong with being positive. I am just silly and enjoy being contrary. In the post, I am not asking for a perfect world but instead showing the lengths of imperfection in this world (well telling more than showing). I disagree with you, though, about humans wanting to alleviate suffering in others by nature. I believe that is something that has been given to us by God and is instilled by our Christian influenced society. Finally, for my illustration about people not remembering in a week, I would like to restate that I was speaking of society as a whole. It is GREAT that you would not react that way. It really is but, I still think from the cynical perspective of this blog post, my example rings true for most of society. Thanks for making me think. Feel free to refute further.
DeleteI agree that society views secret sin as a weakness and a problem you should handle on your own, but I think it's good to see the hope in God's forgiveness and while he does know what you've done, you can ask for forgiveness and strength the next time around.
ReplyDeleteI agree wholeheartedly. I wanted to look at things from a dark and hopeless place, which a life focused on secret sin can feel like, so I left out much of forgiveness and the joy that true repentance offers. In the past I became completely focused on my sin, secret or no, and became very depressed because I felt like I could never move past it. I realized that you can't be good enough to earn God's forgiveness and found that you have to focus on grace instead of sin.
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